just fine

Joined

• started 4 topics
• posted 991 times   see topics posted on
• send a message

Posts by just fine

• 
  161

  I am leaving the JW's . I am alone and scared. Advice and help needed please

  by scared and lonely in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i am sorry that on my first post i am asking for help and advice but i am at my wits end.

  i have been brought up a witness all my life and it is all i know.

  i am an ex-elder and pioneer and i don't know anybody outside of the congregation.. i have been unhappy for so long and wanted to leave.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  just fine

  Fear is not going to help you in this instance. You need to make a plan, then the fear can dissipate and you can see what your next steps are. If you are in the U.S. Each county has services that can help you. The Red Cross provides housing assistance, so do many county organizations. There are job counsellors at the county too. From my leaving experience, it's rarely as bad as you are imagining. Deep breath, stop the fear, make a plan.

  I moved more than a thousand miles away from where I grew up, to a place I didn't know a soul, or have any support system. I made it and you will too.
• 
  42

  Trey Bundy: One Year of Reporting JW Child Abuse - Your comments please!

  by AndersonsInfo in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  http://watchtowerdocuments.org/trey-bundy-one-year-of-reporting-jw-child-abuse/.

  trey bundy: one year of reporting jw child abuse.

  it’s been one year since trey bundy first reported the watchtower’s child abuse problems.. twelve months ago the center for investigative reporting (cir) began publishing information about jehovah’s witnesses and their cover-up of child sexual abuse on their website, reveal.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  just fine

  Thank you to both Trey and Barbara for bringing this problem out in the open. Once the secrecy is gone the healing can begin.
• 
  28

  This Website Was Mentioned By The Governing Body

  by JW_Rogue in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  okay, so at the "imitate their faith" ca there was a special speaker from the gb.

  and he started discussing psalms 1:1 and how we today could "sit in the seat of scoffers".

  he then mentioned that many bros. and sisters criticize the org and think they are so smart by researching online.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  just fine

  They act like scoffing at idiotic things is a bad thing..................
• 
  13

  Would you ever......?

  by ctrwtf in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  list as an accomplishment on a resume, "i escaped from a mind control doomsday cult?".

  sometimes when i reflect on it, the magnitude of this accomplishment amazes me..

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  just fine

  No, although I am proud of myself for having the strength to leave it's a personal issue, not a professional accomplishment.

  A mentor I had early in my career advised against discussing it with anyone at work as it could make me appear naive and gullible, for ever having been a part of it. That advice has served me well in my professional life.
• 
  105

  Does anyone think Jehovah is protecting the org. despite all the talk about THE ARC ?

  by tor1500 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i've been thinking this for a while.

  even before the arc scandal.

  it seems no matter what, the org.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  just fine

  A God that would allow children to be raped, molested, or abused in order to protect his "organization" is not a God I want to know.
• 
  105

  Does anyone think Jehovah is protecting the org. despite all the talk about THE ARC ?

  by tor1500 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i've been thinking this for a while.

  even before the arc scandal.

  it seems no matter what, the org.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  just fine

  Nope - not now, not ever. People used to trust what religious organizations said - they don't anymore, because people who claim to be the chosen ones of God are the worst liars there are.
• 
  24

  Most Translated Website

  by Pubsinger in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  wt claims their website is the 'most translated' and claims over 750 languages.

  but in the drop down language menu there are only about 50. so where are the others?

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  just fine

  It must have been so much easier to lie before the Internet, now it takes 5 seconds to prove them wrong. What's sad is the people stuck in the cult will still cling to whatever statements the org makes even when faced with concrete proof of it being a lie.
• 
  30

  Control - Whose worse, the JWs or the traditional churches?

  by fulltimestudent in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we once experienced, the "you'll die at armegeddon," fear instilled into us as jw's.. was that worse or better than the fear of eternal torment instilled by more conventional religions?.

  john spong gives his view.

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lkah3hemv3m.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  just fine

  I am not a member of any church, but I have visited on occasion (going with friends). The last church I went to was a Catholic Church, the service was very nice. The pastor talked about how to be better people and follow Jesus example of love and kindness. The service was very uplifting and enjoyable and there was a nursery/Sunday school program that the little ones seemed to enjoy.

  There was no "OBEY or God will kill you talk" like at the Kingdom Hall.
• 
  24

  Most Translated Website

  by Pubsinger in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  wt claims their website is the 'most translated' and claims over 750 languages.

  but in the drop down language menu there are only about 50. so where are the others?

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  just fine

  It's all made up $hit no matter what language it's in.
• 
  107

  Stephen Lett at our assembly today

  by StarTrekAngel in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  he delivered the most cultic piece of propaganda i've ever seen in an assembly.

  wife typed up the whole thing.

  i will be posting when i get a chance.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  just fine

  all I can picture is one of those I'm with stupid shirts..........

  We can't be too stupid because we all realized what a crock of &$@/ their religion is.